Eldest Immigrant Daughter Guilt

Yes, it’s Possible to write about Somali Womanhood without Trauma P*rn

Yes, it is possible to write about Somali womanhood without trauma p*rn. It takes creativity, originality, and courage. When I launched GabarIskuFilan, I was aware of the harmful tropes regarding Somali womanhood. Advertisements

by Fadumo Adan

For Eldest Immigrant Daughters who Contemplate Leaving

Whenever I disclose to people that I’m a domestic violence survivor, they instinctively assume the perpetrator is a male intimate partner.

by Fadumo Adan

Gabar’s Guide: How to make the most of your 20’s

My 20’s have been grueling, transformative and liberating. I’ve written about the most important lessons I’ve learned in my 20’s which is by far one of my favorite posts on GabarIskuFilan.

by Fadumo Adan

Happy Mother’s Day to the Eldest Immigrant Daughter

The second Sunday of May marks Mother’s Day in the U.S. This Mother’s Day, I am dedicating this sentimental celebration to myself and every eldest immigrant daughter worldwide.

by Fadumo Adan

5 Important Lessons I’ve Learned in my 20’s so far

Hi everyone! So, I just turned 28 which is a huge milestone for me because I never imagined what my life would look like at this age. Honestly, I didn’t think my life would ever be this manageable.

by Fadumo Adan

5 Signs You’re being Financially Exploited

Financial exploitation is a real problem, and we often don’t discuss its implications. The economic setbacks of financial exploitation prevent many of us from living fuller, more enriching lives.

by Fadumo Adan

For Eldest Immigrant Daughters who Refuse to be Surrogate Fathers

The eldest daughter is forced into a surrogate father role which absolves men of their responsibilities. This sabotages her future, fuels codependency and catalyzes an economic setback.

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Category: Eldest Immigrant Daughter Guilt

Yes, it’s Possible to write about Somali Womanhood without Trauma P*rn

For Eldest Immigrant Daughters who Contemplate Leaving

Gabar’s Guide: How to make the most of your 20’s

Happy Mother’s Day to the Eldest Immigrant Daughter

5 Important Lessons I’ve Learned in my 20’s so far

5 Signs You’re being Financially Exploited

For Eldest Immigrant Daughters who Refuse to be Surrogate Fathers