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Not Every Immigrant Desires a Return

Not every immigrant desires a return. The assumption that every immigrant longs to return is problematic and inaccurate. I have no desire to return.

by GabarIskuFilan

Unpopular Opinion: Being Childfree is an Accomplishment

I have an unpopular opinion: I believe being childfree is an accomplishment. I can’t believe I made it to 28 without children despite all of the reproductive coercion I’ve experienced.

by GabarIskuFilan

5 Signs of Reproductive Coercion & How to Recognize Them

Reproductive coercion is a topic that does not receive enough attention, yet it begins in childhood.

by GabarIskuFilan

Stop asking me Why I travel Solo

Stop asking me why I travel solo. People love to inundate solo female travelers with horror stories, cautionary tales, and terrifying scenarios. Stop it!

by GabarIskuFilan

Gabar’s Guide: How to make the most of your 20’s

My 20’s have been grueling, transformative and liberating. I’ve written about the most important lessons I’ve learned in my 20’s which is by far one of my favorite posts on GabarIskuFilan.

by GabarIskuFilan

Happy Mother’s Day to the Eldest Immigrant Daughter

The second Sunday of May marks Mother’s Day in the U.S. This Mother’s Day, I am dedicating this sentimental celebration to myself and every eldest immigrant daughter worldwide.

by GabarIskuFilan

5 Important Lessons I’ve Learned in my 20’s so far

Hi everyone! So, I just turned 28 which is a huge milestone for me because I never imagined what my life would look like at this age. Honestly, I didn’t think my life would ever be this manageable.

by GabarIskuFilan

No One Will Reward You for Your Martyrdom

No one will reward you for your martyrdom. No one will praise your eagerness to sacrifice unless they will benefit. I promise that you will not be redeemed for your martyrdom.