On Citizenship & Desirability: are Black Americans treated better Abroad?
Yesterday, I posted a tweet where I described an incredulous experience I had in Cartagena, Colombia.
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Unpopular Opinion: Being Childfree is an Accomplishment
I have an unpopular opinion: I believe being childfree is an accomplishment. I can’t believe I made it to 28 without children despite all of the reproductive coercion I’ve experienced.
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5 Signs of Reproductive Coercion & How to Recognize Them
Reproductive coercion is a topic that does not receive enough attention, yet it begins in childhood.
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Child Marriage is a misnomer, it’s actually Sex Trafficking
It’s 2019, and people need to understand that child marriage is a misogynistic, oppressive and gross misnomer.
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Women having 10+ Children is not Normal, it’s a sign of Domestic Violence
Women having 10+ kids isn’t a byproduct of immigrant life; it’s a sign of domestic violence.
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Stop asking me Why I travel Solo
Stop asking me why I travel solo. People love to inundate solo female travelers with horror stories, cautionary tales, and terrifying scenarios. Stop it!
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Happy Mother’s Day to the Eldest Immigrant Daughter
The second Sunday of May marks Mother’s Day in the U.S. This Mother’s Day, I am dedicating this sentimental celebration to myself and every eldest immigrant daughter worldwide.
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No One Will Reward You for Your Martyrdom
No one will reward you for your martyrdom. No one will praise your eagerness to sacrifice unless they will benefit. I promise that you will not be redeemed for your martyrdom.
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How to Overcome Eldest Immigrant Daughter Guilt
Eldest Immigrant Daughter Guilt is a condition that affects many of us. Yet, we do not openly talk about it. It’s a destructive condition that is gendered and weaponized against young girls.
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Why Hijab is Not a Choice
When we talk about hijab, it’s usually as an act of resistance to Islamophobia. But why do we ignore the women whose hijab is not a choice? Why do we avoid discussions about why hijab is not always a choice?
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